Men and Women don't communicate the same. Communication comes from non-verbal, words, and tone. The different ways that we communicate can cause problems it doesn't always say the same thing that you mean. An example is like when your wife asks do you want a drink, when she is the one that wants a drink. Why don't we just come out and say can we stop and get a drink? We decided that the inconvenience that it may cause makes us not want to ask for a drink. Just as going to dinner and not saying where you want to eat, you don't want to be selfish or inconvenience the other person.
No words have to be spoken when having a conversation. Eyebrows moving or nose pointed up or down, not talking at all can signal that that person is mad or sad. Decision making, can cause some conflicts. It can allow you to grow together and apart. Hopefully this will help grow together, allowing you to communicate the different perspectives of the decision to make sure that the right decision is made. In the family dynamic you should allow the children's perspective in the decision because without them thinking they are apart of it even if they don't get their way they still feel involved. Which allows the family to grow together in the hard times of the different perspectives. The other person wants the best interest for you. The different influences that are affected through others like the influence of media. The idea of the different ways to communicate are through power. which is the cause of manipulation coercive- to avoid punishment by spouse. some punishments can be the basic withholding love from the other. reward- to obtain rewards from spouse. The respect that you have for your spouse and their knowledge or their trust. legitimate- spouses has the right to ask. expert- spouse special knowledge. Make sure that you don't treat your spouse as an unequal but equalize yourself to one another. When the beginning of a couple that is married, they have different perspectives. They are influenced by their parents and how things are done. When the two are combined, communication must take place and decisions need to be made together to decide things that you have different perspectives of.
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